Abused as a child. Cant get over it. ?

Sometimes you can"t "get over" things, but what you do have to do is put it to the back of your mind and try to deal with what's right in front of you! We can't always explain why the ones we love do things to hurt us. They just have problems. Your life and your children's lives are much more important than "that day". Don't feel like your wrong for not being able to let it go you just have to leave it in the background.